Some people live their entire lives in one nest. You know the type. You can see the hospital where they were born, their high school, their first job, their bowling alley and their nursing home all from the highest point in town. That’s not me. Life has been an exciting adventure of change from the jump. I lived in five states by the time I started 7th grade. I went to college 1000 miles from home. And I have traded license plates many times since graduation. #WitnessProtectionProgram.
I love my nomadic lifestyle. I have been exposed to traditions, foods, history, religion, weather and sports from a wide variety of angles. This has been a blessing for a creative professional. The one oddity, is that for a very long time, when I changed chapters, I would never see or hear from people in the previous chapter again.
But in 2007 that all changed. Because of Facebook. That thing that we so often take for granted as a silly time waster, quite literally changed my life. It allowed me to reconnect with childhood friends and neighbors from New Jersey, Wisconsin, Missouri, Vermont and New Hampshire. Then I was able to find classmates from The University of Wisconsin. And coworkers from Cramer Krasselt, and Engauge. (Ohio, Georgia and Moxie/Publicis Groupe were added later).
I reconnected with clients and vendors. Neighbors and distant relatives. And people I’ve met at parties and on planes (I’ve met a lot of people on planes). Suddenly, I stopped losing track of people. As a people collector and connector I no longer have to box friends up and store them on a shelf every time I move or change jobs. Now I can play with them whenever I want.
Of course there is LinkedIn too. Which I love. The great Link-A-Roo has allowed me to reconnect and collect people in another, more quasi professional way. (The quasi is all me LinkedIn. You have been nothing but professional). I recently discovered that my friend Nissa Kubly (UW Track) and Cher Fesenmaier (cousin) both work at the same high school in Phoenix. One of the craziest connections that I discovered through LinkedIn is that three of my friends, Neil Miklusak (college buddy from Wisconsin), Audrey Lowder (former co-worker at Engauge in Atlanta) and Erika O’Toole (we met on a flight to NYC) all work together, in the Empire State Building, at LinkedIn!
The simple fact is that if it were not for Facebook and other social platforms I would likely never see, or have any interactions with the majority of my friends and Linkys ever again. (I don’t know what you actually call a person on LinkedIn. Linkletters? Linkins? Linklings?
As I have started The Perfect Agency Project, my connections have become even more important. I am always looking for ideas, support and people to join the project. Over the past few months, thanks to my online network, I have reconnected in person with dozens of people I hadn’t seen in 10 to 30 years. That’s cray.
So thank you to Mark Zuckerberg for allowing me to have my personal “This is your life’ moments every day. It is absolutely mind-blowing to think I may never lose a friend again. Except maybe Alex ‘Big Drawz’ Mautz, my college track teammate who moved to San Diego and must enjoy such perfect weather that he never needs to connect to the rest of us.
As a fun demonstration of the topic of this post, and to see who, if any of my people read this all the way to the end, I would love for you to share a word or a sentence about how we know each other. Thanks for playing.
Sat behind you during an advertising class at UW-Madison and remember thinking to myself, “Who the f*@% is this guy?” Then I worked with you at Cramer-Krasselt and remember thinking to myself, “Who the f*@% is this guy?”
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That’s right! T-Ryan! Keeping everyone guessing! Thanks for playing!
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CK Alum 🙂
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Boom!
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We met in the Gene Pool. Which in this case means because we’re related, not that we met at some weird summer pool party where everyone is named Gene or only wears denim.
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Thanks for clarifying! Imagine how strange that would seem to some
People!
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Good ol’ C-K!
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Exactly!
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Fordem University!!!
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Ah yeah! Their uniforms were so expensive!
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Maroon Crush!
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Good times Matt. Good times.
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Floor Burn
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Way to dig that one out Sara!
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Wait. Fucking Cher is your cousin?????????????? If I can turn back time indeed, Adam!!!
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She hasn’t been the same since Sonny…
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We were introduced by your neighbors in Atlanta who are dear friends of mine
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True! And now we are teammates!
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“The left side”
(DCC humor…)
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The left side was the best side! #GodsFavs
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And, PS-since we are nomads and also love it, I totally get the FB crush-although, at times, I don’t want to love it.
And PSS, when Sam lived on Kauai we would walk down the beach to hang out on Mark Z’s beach, which makes us practically bffs…
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Has Sam raised money for a shave and a haircut yet?
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Nope….perpetually looks like he just strolled down the mountain-hairy dude #therealsasquatch
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Samsquatch!
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Adam is my 1st cousin…who even mentioned me in this article! Rock on Adam!
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Thanks for being my cuz, cuz.
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Well said, Adam. Glad your smiling face has reappeared all these years after C-K. 🙂
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Don’t be silly! I’ve had this face the whole time!
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The hood-where the cutest little girl melted our hearts when she showed up at DCC and spoke only truths when sitting up front for story time!
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Word!
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Dan Koel.
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It’s always Dan Koel…
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Jolly John for… SNARF!!!
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If you’re not happy, I’m not jolly!
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Well, besides coffee this morning (thank you), we rocked CK and Case Ag 1996-98 (go tractors!) while I gained 50 pounds and was with child. Sorry if that was TMI. Seriously, loved team CK.
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I think I gained 50 pounds too, and I wasn’t pregnant.
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